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We all want to be
happy. But that goal often requires us to make changes in our lives, and
most of us are not even sure where to begin. Even if we know that
something about US has to change, how can we identify what IT is, or how to
actually go about changing it? All we know is something is wrong and we
are not as happy as we believe we can be.
"Balancing our lives", and ourselves
is the popular advice. While that certainly sounds right, the
issue of what balance is and what it means for each of US specifically remains
rather fuzzy. What exactly gets balanced? What is "yin/yang" anyway,
or "active/passive" or "male/female" energy? Since identifying specific
issues in ourselves is critical to the process of change, it sure would help to
understand what some of the manifestation of those terms means in humans.
Here are just a few of the ways an imbalance can manifest itself. |
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Yin/Female/Passive Energy Weakness:
Impatient when
listening to others
Tendencies to "leap
before you think"
Easily irritated and
angered
Short fuse
Overreact even to
trivial problems
Fear of intimacy
Lack of trust
Unable to take
direction or instruction
Difficulty allowing others to "be in
charge"
Incapable of enjoying "down time"
Silence makes you nervous
Hold grudges
Aggressive
Impatient
Resist change
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Yang/Male/Active
Energy Weakness:
Difficulty making
decisions
Lack of focus
Tend to daydream
Unable to express
yourself clearly
People often don't
know what you mean
Unable to make
decisions
Dread being in charge
Feelings of lack of
control in life
Procrastination
Hesitant/timid driver
Have great ideas that
never go anywhere
Shyness
Rarely offer an opinion
Don't stay with one thing for long |
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The Midwest Book Review called
it "the
ultimate self-help book"!
Interviewers
have called it "the dawn of a new men's movement",
Readers
have been enlightened and empowered.
A
modern allegory using Tango as the metaphor for life, The Tao of Tango is a
journey of self-discovery. Based
on lessons acquired from years of dancing Tango, The Tao of Tango provides you
with a clear understanding of "opposites" and "balance", detailed, step-by-step explanations of why we make the choices we make, and
how to change the way we make those choices. By applying the extraordinary transformational
elements I learned from dancing Tango to my own everyday life, I was able to
make the profound, lasting changes I had begun to believe would
never happen!
Bonus Chapter:
Looking
in the Mirror.
Background courtesy of
http://www.grsites.com |